Voyeurism

Definition: Voyeurism is a sexual fetish characterized by arousal from watching others engage in sexual activity, undress, or perform intimate acts. The thrill often comes from secrecy, observation, and the tab-oo intimacy of witnessing sex. While traditionally associated with men, voyeurism can occur in any gender, and many enjoy it in consensual settings where everyone knows they’re being watched. Crucially, consensual voyeurism must be distinguished from illegal activity — ethical practice requires all parties involved to agree.

The story of voyeurism from our brothel is quite unusual. It’s not about one person, but about a couple who have been visiting us for several years. They’re in their early forties (she may be slightly younger) and share the thrill of watching another couple have sex — while doing the same themselves.

The twist? For their fantasy to work, both “actors” must consent — and in a brothel, that means paying for the full performance.

Hiring a girl is easy. They simply choose one they both find attractive and pay her fee. But what about the man? We don’t have male gigolos on staff. No problem for them. They simply approach one of the male customers at the bar or elsewhere in the club and offer him the same fee they’re paying the girl.

Funny thing is, I often think they wouldn’t need to pay most guys at all — the reward would already be having sex with the girl. But they insist: both “actors” must be paid.

The reactions are priceless. Some men are too shy to perform in front of strangers. Others refuse because they can’t choose the girl themselves. Still, at the end of the night, the couple always finds their willing “male actor.”

Once, they even tried to hire one of my barmans. I had to put a stop to that. He didn’t speak to me for a week… :)